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does any body know what is the longest u can go before u have a abortion..my friend need to know..she is 2 mounts
 
Thanks Clubby.....I googled and didn't find anything appropriate and it's disturbing for me. There are many options for this circumstance.

No preaching or judging from me as those are very difficult shoes to be in, but BNSF please have your friend consider ALL options. My prayers are with your friend, it is a very difficult place to be. Hope everything works out.
 
i was in her position, and i know how hard the decision can be. just remember no matter what choice she makes, she has to live with it for the rest of her life. enough said.
 
Whoa.

This is a wee bit too heavy of a topic for this site.
 
not too heavy. we're all friends, and nobody's being judgmental
 
agreed.....it's a hard place to be and who do you turn to? your friends...
 
You might be able to find the info you are looking for here

http://www.fwhc.org/abortion/ab-procedures.htm

The Abortion Pill, (also known as Mifepristone, M&M, Non-surgical Abortion or Medical Abortion):
Mifepristone abortion is an option up to 8 weeks LMP. Prescription Mifepristone is taken in pill form at the clinic.
 
thank you guys for the help..she is 16 at the in she is 2 mouths..is it to late?
 
I'm going to go out on a limb....before a rash decision is made (that is irreversible) please consider ALL the alternatives. I'm sure that right now she is in the 'panic' mode and just wants 'this' to 'go away'. It can 'go away' in the blink of an eye, but it will never 'go away'. There are situations where it is in the best interests for all to abort, but that is a personal decision. Given her age, I really think she needs a bit of counseling for whatever decision is made and all her options should be presented to her. Talk to her, go with her, seek out a 'planned parenthood' (or equivalent) in your area, support her. It's scary for everyone. Sit down, explore all options and repercussions. Sometimes things seem so much worse than they are.

The answer to some problems are not always your first 'solution'. There are truly people out there who want to help, and want to help you make the right decision for you. Don't let embarassment or other's reactions (or what you think their reactions are going to be) dictate your decision because ultimately, one must live with themselves and one's decisions. It's not always as 'bad' as it seems, and you would be amazed at what 'people' have gotten over and gotten through.

Explore all the options thoroughly. Just make an informed decision.
 
Please consider all the options. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't thank God for the decison my birth mother made.
 
she said she is going with abortion becuse she is to young right now..i just hope its not to late for her
 
BNSF650 said:
she said she is going with abortion becuse she is to young right now.
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i don't know your friend and of course am not familiar with her circumstances. however, like precocious, clubchick, cam, and others, i hope that your friend seriously considers all of her options before making such a grave decision. it may also be a good idea if she received counseling regarding this matter.

i wish her all the best during what must be a difficult time for her.
 
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I came from an extremely strict, religious, straight laced family. Birth control was 'you just don't', period. Not good advice, however, when my husband and I decided to get married, we purchased (rather borrowed lots of money from the bank) to get a home 1 1/2 years prior marriage. We were financially strapped. We moved in together before marriage.

My mother, who was always prim and proper and was part of the 'holy rollers', turned to me one day and said, "I never thought I would say this, but, I'm glad you live with J. At least I know someone is looking after you and you're safe, you're not living alone." I was floored, that was the last thing I expected to hear from her. I was astounded that my Dad didn't call me every name in the book and drag me 'home' by my hair and tie me to the nearest tree. Point is, my worst fear of their reactions never happened. My Dad's family....with nuns and priests in the family, were equally accepting and now think that hubby is better than sliced bread.

Long story, the short, you'd be really surprised by the reactions of the people who truly love you. Sure they'll be po'd, but acceptance and support will follow after the 'shock' (it's more their dissapointment of their expectations). Your ages matter because the important lesson is not to hide your 'mistakes' but to be mature enough to accept the consequesnces of them. This is serious, get her some counsel, no matter what her decision. (Unfortunately, there's no easy out. She really does need support now, she sounds so scared.)
 
BNSF650 said:
she said she is going with abortion becuse she is to young right now..i just hope its not to late for her
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My birth mother was 16 when she had me. My dad ran out on her and she couldn't take care of me so she put me up for adoption. There are many, many couples in the world wanting to adopt a child because for some reason of another they are unable to have their own children. I don't know your friends situation but please tell her to take some time to think about it before making a decision.
 
How is your friend's relationship with her parents? Her parents do have some rights for their opinions, too. What's her real motive to think about abortion? I don't know the circumstances, but in my opinion, if she still lives with her parents, and they don't even know about this, she should not do it.

When I was 29, during serious conversation, my mom told me that they were thinking about aborting me due to some circumstances, but decided not to. I don't know how to describe the mixed feelings when I heard the statement, but I have been so glad and blessed that they didn't do it...

Please have your friend see professional counseling, from both sides, pro- and con-.
 
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