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today is thee scariest day ever. after school i was with my friends and we were hanging out. soon they all left and it was just me and 4 other friends. a raging guy comes out of his house with a video camera saying that hes gonna call the police. this guy lives in a house about 15 ft away from where we were. we were standing on the sidewalk doing absoloutly nothing when hes saying we are jumping off cars,ruining property and screaming. my friend says we werent doing anything and that what he is doing is illegal, he goes "tell that to the judge,(he said this many times changing it too police and principle)hes yelling at us to "smile at the camer,look at the camera" we see a teacher and tell him,he goes after him with one of my friends cause 2 of them ran away and me an another friend went to get security. we tell most teachers and have to fill out a statement. the police come and ask us a few questions. my friend who was so confident to yell at the deranged man was hysterical crying,shaking and wheezing. im incredibly sad but im not crying because i 'dont cry'. im comfting her and its just getting really scary. leter the polic say that since we know where he lives,there gonna talk to him. they said something and i heard that they were taking down our information because they need to know just incase we need to fill out a police report or in the worst cirsumstances,press charges. we seen him before. always yelling at us because we are hanging out on the sidewalk(public property) the polic said it was a fine line between illegal and legal what he did. im so scared right now that i cant breathe right. i cry a little bit and then after talking to my mom i go to be with my other friends who werent there. one of them was getting her nails done so as soon as i enter the nail salon i hug my best friend and burst out crying. i frantically tell her the story and she concluded he had mental problems. hes always warning us to stop. we werent doing anything wrong,just talking and im so scared. i still cant breathe right. my voice is hoarse and im sick and have a leg injury so i cant fight,scream or do anything but stand around. no one knows how scared i am for tommrow.
 
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and people say he was filming before. im just not sure, he got all our faces on camera.i dont think he was filming but im not sure.
 
and the people i was with, some of them were doing it but not me....im shaking now.....damn.
 
Shani - I dont know what to say. :hug:
Be thankful that none of you were hurt and it was good that you were standing there as a group and not by yourself.
You have to be so careful anymore - you dont know what other people are thinking or what they will do.
Get some rest.
 
i cant.i havent stopped shaking and not breathing right since it happened.
 
Easire said then done, but just take a deep breath and try to calm down. Get some good sleep and if in the morning you are still shaken up and scared...stay home..inside. :hug:
 
i need to be there for my other friend. she needs me. i have to be there for my friends.
 
shani said:
i cant.i havent stopped shaking and not breathing right since it happened.
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focus on the positive - you arent hurt. You and your friends are okay. A little shaken up, yes - but okay! Take it one step at a time
 
i think i had a panic attack,but my friend had it much worse.
 
Mentally ill people are scary because they can be irrational and unpredictable. As far as him 'filming' you and getting you in 'trouble'...well, if you weren't doing anything wrong, then he couldn't film you doing anything wrong.


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and the people i was with, some of them were doing it but not me....im shaking now.....damn.
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I seem to remember a thread where you defended yourself and your 'friends' who did not always do the right thing. And I can recall several people advising you that they will bring you down with them......

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he goes after him with one of my friends cause 2 of them ran away and me an another friend went to get security
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...I also recall someone saying that when things 'hit the fan', they will run and leave you there....

Not defending the man, but trying to understand him. If there has constantly been groups of teenagers hanging out near his home, destroying his property, making a ruckus, jumping on cars, etc.,....I'm sure this man is rightfully very frustrated with this constant situation. Getting a camera and filming the perpetrators seems like the thing to do........Now......mix that in with mental illness and the combination is freaky scary and could be very dangerous.

My advice, don't go back to that area (avoid it and the man). Don't confront him and if confronted, just say, "I'm sorry" (even if you don't mean it) and calmly leave immediately (do not give him 'attitude' or be 'flippant').

I'd also give some serious thought in re-thinking who your real friends are and who you should be hanging with. Even if you do not participate in a wrong doing, you will be guilty by association. Groups of teenagers all seem to 'look alike'.

Call if unfair, call it not right, etc......get over it and think about your own preservation. Because like it or not, situations like these will take you down.

Consider yourself very lucky this time and learn from it.
 
I think a more appropriate place for this would have been on "my space" or some sort of a "blog", or "text message".....isn't what you teenagers do these days? :convinced: :proud:

I agree with preco - choose your friends carefully
 
I am going to agree with Preco too.......my mother used to tell me "Every decision you make can effect you for the rest of your life" Think about it - it's so true. Maybe this situation was a friendly warning........


is it "E"ffect or "A"ffect????? Clubby? Anyone?
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Kadin'sMama said:
I am going to agree with Preco too.......my mother used to tell me "Every decision you make can effect you for the rest of your life" Think about it - it's so true. Maybe this situation was a friendly warning........


is it "E"ffect or "A"ffect????? Clubby? Anyone?
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its affect
effect is a result
 
shani said:
today is thee scariest day ever. after school i was with my friends and we were hanging out. soon they all left and it was just me and 4 other friends. a raging guy comes out of his house with a video camera saying that hes gonna call the police. this guy lives in a house about 15 ft away from where we were. we were standing on the sidewalk doing absoloutly nothing when hes saying we are jumping off cars,ruining property and screaming. my friend says we werent doing anything and that what he is doing is illegal, he goes "tell that to the judge,(he said this many times changing it too police and principle)hes yelling at us to "smile at the camer,look at the camera" we see a teacher and tell him,he goes after him with one of my friends cause 2 of them ran away and me an another friend went to get security. we tell most teachers and have to fill out a statement. the police come and ask us a few questions. my friend who was so confident to yell at the deranged man was hysterical crying,shaking and wheezing. im incredibly sad but im not crying because i 'dont cry'. im comfting her and its just getting really scary. leter the polic say that since we know where he lives,there gonna talk to him. they said something and i heard that they were taking down our information because they need to know just incase we need to fill out a police report or in the worst cirsumstances,press charges. we seen him before. always yelling at us because we are hanging out on the sidewalk(public property) the polic said it was a fine line between illegal and legal what he did. im so scared right now that i cant breathe right. i cry a little bit and then after talking to my mom i go to be with my other friends who werent there. one of them was getting her nails done so as soon as i enter the nail salon i hug my best friend and burst out crying. i frantically tell her the story and she concluded he had mental problems. hes always warning us to stop. we werent doing anything wrong,just talking and im so scared. i still cant breathe right. my voice is hoarse and im sick and have a leg injury so i cant fight,scream or do anything but stand around. no one knows how scared i am for tommrow.
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do you cry or not cry Shani? Before any Spoofers get on my case - this story makes no sense to me what so ever.
 
i did cry but not in school. and this isn't about my friends. its the fact that they didn't find the guy. there wasnt any justice. they said if they catch the guy we may be able to file a harrasment charge. my friends ran because they didnt want to get cought on film if we were at the police station those friends would of stuck up for me. so get your facts straight before you judge them. filming us is not what you should do. it scared me out of my mind and it was terrible expirience to go through. as well as the fact that we weren't on his property whatsoever. read....jeez.
 
A lot of crazy people...

Be very careful and stay away from this person. Do not hang out near his home. If he lives near you... move. I worked with a guy like that. He thought every one was talking about him. I killed his neighbor a couple of years later and got away with it. He claimed the man picked on him every day when he checked his mail box. He claimed temporary insanity and they left him go!!!
 
wait,you killed him or he killed him? we passed where it was,i wanted him to come out so i could call the police because they are looking for him.
 
shani said:
i did cry but not in school. and this isn't about my friends. its the fact that they didn't find the guy. there wasnt any justice. they said if they catch the guy we may be able to file a harrasment charge. my friends ran because they didnt want to get cought on film if we were at the police station those friends would of stuck up for me. so get your facts straight before you judge them. filming us is not what you should do. it scared me out of my mind and it was terrible expirience to go through. as well as the fact that we weren't on his property whatsoever. read....jeez.
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Shani, we're the bunch of idiots. You know it all. You children know it all, I guess you can teach us with all your wisdom and advanced classes.

I'm tired and am apparently wasting my time because it's obviously not appreciated. I'm done, figure out your own dramas. Good luck, you need it.:yo:

BTW You don't belong on an adult forum. JMHO
 
that madd grimy. all you did since i told you my age was make me feel bad. i don't need this right now. im sorry i dont belong here. so i dont care. i dont appriciate your oppinion cause you never listen to me. you better not bring up an attitude with me cause im young. im reminded of that everyday and you being like this to me isn't helping. i hate this. im sorry for wasting space on this forum. im gone.
 
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