Staged fake arrest of son aged FIVE... because he played with matches

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Staged fake arrest of son aged FIVE... because he played with matches

As far as punishments go, it was just a little on the harsh side.
An American mother persuaded police to stage a fake arrest of her son when she
caught him misbehaving.
But far from being a criminal matter the 'offence' was that he was playing with matches - and the boy was just five years old.

Appalled neighbours looked on, unaware the whole thing was a stunt, as officers handcuffed the crying child - who was barely tall enough to reach the wheel of their patrol car - and put him on the back seat.
They threatened him by saying: 'You want to go to jail?' over and over again before finally releasing him back to his mother.

The incident took place outside the 7-Eleven convenience store in Florida where the unnamed mother works.
It later emerged the mother was friends with the deputy sheriff who slapped the cuffs on her child.
An outraged witness, not realising that the arrest was staged, snapped a photograph on her mobile phone.

'If more parents did what I did, we wouldn't have the crime we have now': The unnamed mother defends herself on U.S. TV
Critics have claimed that the mother's actions were wrong and that the boy was too young to be given such a punishment.
But the unnamed mother in her 20s, from Lehigh Acres in Florida, was unrepentant.
A TV reporter asked her 'Do you feel that may have been over the top?'
'No, absolutely not,' she said.
'If more parents did what I did, we wouldn't have the crime we have now.
'I hope it scared him to not play with matches or lighters again. That was the whole point of it, it was to make him afraid he was going to jail.'
Witnesses disagreed, with one neighbour bursting into tears as she recounted the incident.
'That's not a way to treat a child, that's not a way to teach a lesson to a little boy,' said the woman, in her 30s, said.
Child psychologist Omar Reiche told ABC News: 'No matter what the details are, when
you see that picture it says so much.
'The age at which this is being done is inappropriate. This is misguided.'
But local residents threw their support behind the mother on internet message boards.
One who called herself Kim wrote on one local paper's website: 'We have gotten too soft on our children and wonder why we have all the problems with crime. Good for that mom!
'Hopefully this will teach her son a valuable lesson.. at least we are not reading about him burning his house down.'
Another reader, Renee, added: 'I think this is a wonderful way to teach a child. Anyone
who thinks this is cruel has either never had children or have kids I would not want to meet.'
Juanita posted on another website: 'I stand by the mother. Wasn't it just 4 to 6 years ago that many residents in Lehigh lost their homes to fires caused by arson??

'This happens every dry season, some kid playing with fire ends up burning acres of land.'
An editorial in a local newspaper said: 'We sympathize with the frustration many parents and others feel about out-of-control children, and about the perceived limits on parents' freedom to discipline.
'Further, we do not know how far this child's misbehaviour with the matches had gone.
'That said, handcuffing a five-year-old in a mock arrest is extreme. Parents need other tactics to use before involving law enforcement

Okay, kid plays with matches...mom stakes a fake arrest...kid gets upset.....this is a news story...:lost:
What ticked me off is the news anchor man commented on how 'wrong' this is.......would it have been a better story if he burnt down a building and people died? Bottom line, the kid did something dangerous (who knows how many times before), the mother shows the consequence (it was 'faked'), the kid gets upset (like kids often do) and he'll think twice about touching and playing with matches.

Was/is it worth the 'trauma'? Absolutely :yesnod:
 
Happened to me as a kid too. It's not something you should do at that age.
 
Did it stop you from playing with matches? (or whatever the 'crime' was) :noidea: Did it make you not want to do it again?

Sure the 'punishment' was unpleasant...but aren't punishments meant to be unpleasant?

I don't think this type of tactic should be used for kids who refuse to eat their veggies, but for serious concerns and when other methods were tried first.......it may be an effective and productive method. :yesnod: (It also depends on how far the 'fake' is taken.)
 
When kids play with matches around our city, the fire chief has a very stern lecture for the kids. We never have problems with them again. I am all for scaring them into compliance when there could be lives at stake.
 
Salient points:
!) Mother worked at convenience store
2) Happened in Florida.

Idiot Factor 8.5 on a scale of 10.

Writing style suggests this is from a British source. That lowers the credibility factor by 3 points at least.

I just found the story. Happened in Lehigh Acres, FL, which means Lee County Sheriff's dept. Idiot factor just went to scale of 10.

Used to live there. The whole place should be fenced off to protect the rest of society.
 
Writing style suggests this is from a British source. That lowers the credibility factor by 3 points at least.
It was on a TV news station (ABC) as 'news' in New York. I looked it up online and found the OP article. There were others that were similar.
 
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