vent: My Sister is crazy

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Susannah

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This morning I was checking my MYSPACE account and had a friends request from someone wanting to be added as a friend on my account.

It was from my Mother who has been dead 3 years. My sister actually made a Myspace profile for my dead mother . She even added pictures and comments as if my Mom had done it and then sent us all friends request from my Mom.

I guess I am just overly emotional today , last night I had all kinds of crazy dreams about my Mom. I still miss her terribly. I did not sleep well at all, then today to pull that up without any warning whatsoever.

It was creepy and really shook me up. What the heck was she thinking?
 
That is really weird. Maybe you could get her to change it to a "In Memory of" page dedicated to your mother or if it really bothers you, you could send a message to Tom to get the account deleted.
 
Holy smokes!! Maybe that's your sister's way of coping??
Did she keep her feelings about your mom's passing bottled up?
I'm sorry it's bringing you distress.
Like mina said...."In memory of" would be a nice change.
 
Do you know if she did it just to do it or she wanted to create something with information about your mom? (things she might have said, photos, etc). If she did it and you dont know why maybe you should ask her. I do know of people who created pages - but yea most of them were 'in memory of'
 
Susannah said:
This morning I was checking my MYSPACE account and had a friends request from someone wanting to be added as a friend on my account.

It was from my Mother who has been dead 3 years. My sister actually made a Myspace profile for my dead mother . She even added pictures and comments as if my Mom had done it and then sent us all friends request from my Mom.

I guess I am just overly emotional today , last night I had all kinds of crazy dreams about my Mom. I still miss her terribly. I did not sleep well at all, then today to pull that up without any warning whatsoever.

It was creepy and really shook me up. What the heck was she thinking?
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Whatever you do...don't piss her off.

She might be making a MySpace for you next.
 
I think your sister has issues :confused:


I'm :( sorry to hear that you lost your Mom ......:hug:
 
That is just sad to me. I think she is really missing your Mom and perhaps she is dealing with other problems and its all just to much for her. Maybe you should go see her if you live close or call her if not.
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You're right - your sister is crazy
 
Maybe she just feels like she wants to "communicate" with your mother and this is how she feels she can do it. Please don't think she is crazy, she may just be grieving in her own way.
 
Appletinitwist said:
Maybe she just feels like she wants to "communicate" with your mother and this is how she feels she can do it. Please don't think she is crazy, she may just be grieving in her own way.
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You're so sweet, I feel bad about saying she has issues.............:(
 
dbee said:
You're so sweet, I feel bad about saying she has issues.............:(
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Dont feel bad - her issue is that she is probably grieving.

Susannah, I sorry about your Mom passing. And I agree that this may be her way of grieving or coping. By doing this in her own way doesnt make her odd or crazy. I dont know how old your sister is, but I cant imagine losing my Mom at any age. It is possible that she meant it as a "in memory of" type of page and just went about it differently?

My advice would to approach her gently about it. Dont be like "girl have you lost your mind?" Because if you do, and this is her way of coping or grieving it will make it seem like it is wrong. But make sure she knows that the way she went about it makes you uncomfortable and suggest using the "in memory of" layout.
 
Oh I forgot.....:hug:
 
Thanks for the advice everyone. I really appreciate it . I have not approached her yet because I probably would do the "Have you lost your mind" speech on her. I am waiting until I chill out about it a little, then I will take your advice and ask her to change it to a in memory of page. Thanks for letting me vent. You guys are awesome.
 
Therapists are us....

Glad we could help - that's what we're here for.
 
"In Memory Of"

mina said:
That is really weird. Maybe you could get her to change it to a "In Memory of" page dedicated to your mother or if it really bothers you, you could send a message to Tom to get the account deleted.
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I would go with this one.
 
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