How do you know if he/she is "The One?"

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Anyone can answer this, young or old, married or single. I'm just curious of people's answers. :confused:
 
:knuddel: Was the sex great and did he scream out your name? :eyebrows: or mine? :kissing:

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:laugh:*only joking*
 
Is this a Matrix question? I'll take the blue pill this time.

Seriously it probably depends on how confident you are about "gut feelings", intuition, instinct, etc. If you can't rely on them and screw what anyone else might say you will probably be wondering for a while. In this case I suggest a long engagement. If you CAN rely on your instinct then go for it and never look back.

My wife and I went on an arranged date that ended in our being just friends (not too much in common). A few weeks later we were at a BBQ and hit it off. A few weeks after that we got married. That was 35 yrs ago. I pay little attention to other's opinions (except my wife) and if I think I'm right about something, I'm right. That attitude annoys others but part of the attitude says TS, I'm right, except if it involves my wife (sort of :wink:)
 
Soul mate? Everyone is everyone else's soul mates.

Often you find someone that has a similar childhood to yours & you have a wonderful attraction.
 
:thinking: I'm thinking Weneedlight got hit by the thunderbolt.....:yesnod:

Be careful....playing with fire.....keep your head....:wink:
 
If he looks like this...

...then he is the one -

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The question to ask is not "It he/she the one?" It's "For how long will he/she be the one?" .....then plan accordingly
 
cybermom said:
The question to ask is not "It he/she the one?" It's "For how long will he/she be the one?" .....then plan accordingly
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:sad: reality is harsh! :doh:


I hope that if you feel you may have found the one :teeth:

They feel the same way also :smiley:
 
"the one" ?? Im sort of a pessimist...but I don't believe in "The" one. i don't believe in magic, soul-mates, or fantasies. I believe in reality, facts, and choices. I believe that several people are qualified to be "the one". I believe that if the couple has alot in common, simular values, uplift each-other and they Choose to be together, than he/she is 'the one'. Of course, Informed Choices should be based on reality....ie: trying to see if the person is "real" or a fraud (read their email, IM's if you have to, keyloggers, etc) , see if the person is the 'same person' around his/her family & friends, do a back-ground check [court records are free online] , ask around too find out his/her reputation, even looking into websites like dontdatehimgirl.com I know that some people will disagree w/ me and say people need to trust eachother....but I'm just saying that it's wise to snoop Occassionally to make sure he/she is still being honest, and still the 'same' person you "choose" to be with...ie: The One. Of course, if he/she is an A**(&$(# then of course, they aren't the one...nobody needs that kind of thing and it'll shorten your lifespan.
 
I've been talking to my single friends and it sounds like a hassle when people are trying to find the right person. like i'm at the stage where my parents are bugging me to date but I truly think that being independent is the best way to live my life. I seriously don't think I can picture myself settling down.

But in a way, maybe finding a person isnt' that bad. But I am a picky person. I don't think I should lower my standards and settle for a hobo either. It's so hard to find the nearly perfect significant other.
 
It happens when you aren't looking.......
 
Just remember.....you only have one chance to make a good first impression!

I believe in love at first sight. When you see that special someone and just melt inside, your heart pounds and at that very moment 'you just know'.... worked for me.
 
cybermom said:
The question to ask is not "It he/she the one?" It's "For how long will he/she be the one?" .....then plan accordingly
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Let me ask my parents-who just celebrated their 60th wedding anniversary last week! God Bless Them Both! :prey:
 
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