What do women look for

CozKramer

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Trying to find ladies is a mixed bag in itself... They all want a funny yet sincere guy, however those are often the shy ones, to which never get a second look from the ladies.. What are we to do? Force them? Do hypnosis? Or act like a fool on one of the many reality shows? Frankly, I'm all ears...
 
CozKramer said:
What are we to do? Force them? Do hypnosis? Or act like a fool on one of the many reality shows? Frankly, I'm all ears...
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There are plenty of things, but most of them are not legal. LOL
 
CozKramer said:
Trying to find ladies is a mixed bag in itself... They all want a funny yet sincere guy, however those are often the shy ones, to which never get a second look from the ladies.. What are we to do? Force them? Do hypnosis? Or act like a fool on one of the many reality shows? Frankly, I'm all ears...
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Ha! You should ask my hubby - Kage_. He may have some pointers for ya. He's funny & sincere, to me the perfect man. And he was shy, as well. Sometimes the shy guys do get the girl. ;)
 
Choochoojr said:
There are plenty of things, but most of them are not legal. LOL
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Don't think I haven't thought about those.... LOL Maybe I'm just too nice a guy to try any of them tho... Wonder if I brought handcuffs while I was out would help? Ya know, 'cuff the catch... Kinky, yes, then again, she'd probably scream for help, or worse, rape.. <sigh>
 
CozKramer said:
Don't think I haven't thought about those.... LOL Maybe I'm just too nice a guy to try any of them tho... Wonder if I brought handcuffs while I was out would help? Ya know, 'cuff the catch... Kinky, yes, then again, she'd probably scream for help, or worse, rape.. <sigh>
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LOL - Okay, if I was that girl, I'd be freaking out. But really, nice guys can make it! Maybe my hubby should write a book. LOL

You know what, seriously? You might be shy and have a difficult time catching a lady, but then again, did you ever consider that there's a shy gal out there waiting for you? A close friend, perhaps, who's afraid of letting on how she feels, for fear of you not reciprocating? (This happened with my and Kage_. I was just as shy as my hubby, and after a few heartbreaks, I vowed I wouldn't say "I love you" first - he'd have to, because I was afraid of letting him know how I felt. He was probably just as scared of heartbreak, yet when he took that step, everything was perfect!)

I'm not a guy, but my friends tell me I think like a guy. Still, I don't know how it feels to be in your shoes, trying to find a decent date. I do know, however, how it felt in my own shoes as a woman. I wish I could offer more advice. My Kage_ just came out of his shell for me. :)
 
As a woman, I'll give it to you straight. We like a strong confident man, but still a man that can be sensitive when the time is right. We don't mean sappy, just as long as he has feelings and a good heart. Another thing, don't lie to get a woman. We will respect you more if you're honest, even if you think it's something we don't want to hear. Anyway, it's better to get it out before a relationship begins. I think honesty and not trying to catch a girl by any means necessary is the best thing you can do. It doesn't hurt to play hard to get too. It intrigues us and poses a little bit of a challenge. We don't like guys to bow to our feet right from the get go. They are no fun.

I hope this helps.

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iluvdeals said:
As a woman, I'll give it to you straight. We like a strong confident man, but still a man that can be sensitive when the time is right. We don't mean sappy, just as long as he has feelings and a good heart. Another thing, don't lie to get a woman. We will respect you more if you're honest, even if you think it's something we don't want to hear. Anyway, it's better to get it out before a relationship begins. I think honesty and not trying to catch a girl by any means necessary is the best thing you can do. It doesn't hurt to play hard to get too. It intrigues us and poses a little bit of a challenge. We don't like guys to bow to our feet right from the get go. They are no fun.

I hope this helps.

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I agree with this woman!!! I knew a guy once who was too too too sappy, and it was sickening. I didn't want to be worshipped - it was like he thought I was perfect, and that was difficult because it placed too much pressure on me. No fun! Take it from iluvdeals and me! ;)
 
Okay, so we have the 'how' part fixed, sorta... I'm sure there's many of us that are complete techno geeks with no 'skills' in that area. I've heard bars are no place to try to meet someone, the whole ubbergeek means neit on friends, so where do we go?
 
CozKramer said:
Okay, so we have the 'how' part fixed, sorta... I'm sure there's many of us that are complete techno geeks with no 'skills' in that area. I've heard bars are no place to try to meet someone, the whole ubbergeek means neit on friends, so where do we go?
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Kage_ is a techno geek - ask him. ;)
 
iluvdeals said:
As a woman, I'll give it to you straight. We like a strong confident man, but still a man that can be sensitive when the time is right. We don't mean sappy, just as long as he has feelings and a good heart. Another thing, don't lie to get a woman. We will respect you more if you're honest, even if you think it's something we don't want to hear. Anyway, it's better to get it out before a relationship begins. I think honesty and not trying to catch a girl by any means necessary is the best thing you can do. It doesn't hurt to play hard to get too. It intrigues us and poses a little bit of a challenge. We don't like guys to bow to our feet right from the get go. They are no fun.

I hope this helps.

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My gf of 3 months says this to me. It makes me sick inside when she tells me im sweet when we're alone.
My main advice is to just be a friend to girls, thats how it really werks.
and then when you get a gf they can embarass you infront of other guy's :o
 
latch said:
My gf of 3 months says this to me. It makes me sick inside when she tells me im sweet when we're alone.
My main advice is to just be a friend to girls, thats how it really werks.
and then when you get a gf they can embarass you infront of other guy's :o
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I don't understand. Why does it make you sick that she says you're sweet "when you're alone?" Or does she say this in public, in front of other guys? When you're alone, I would think it would make you feel good, not sick. :confused:

I could understand maybe being embarrassed, being told that in front of other guys, but in reality, when they guys tease you for what she says, they're really jealous that you've got someone who feels that way about you. ;)

And you're right about being a friend first - I married my very best friend. I can't imagine marrying anyone else but my best friend! :) :o :07:
 
To be a friend to a girl, one must have a girl to be a friend with....

and again, the paradox hits...
 
Awww. Well, I can be your friend, but that's all, because I'm happily married. But there is hope for you yet. I cannot tell you how similar you are to a friend of mine, who asks the same questions. Is your name William? ;)
 
I'll take it. :) No, I'm no Shakespeare... Nor a William... But I do fit right in at the Defcon shows... :D
 
Whew...that's good to know. This guy Will (not William Hung - lol) I know is a nice guy and all, but he's a little obsessive. I don't get that vibe from you. Just a nice guy, trying to find a nice girl. And boy, I think you and my husband would get along like old chums. LOL

Have a great day, friend! :D
 
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